Here is a video showing celeb artist David Llan and his new piece “Points with Purpose” dedicated to rape and abuse victims. After watching the video here is the artists website; http://www.pointswithpurpose.com/MYPWP/home.php, perhaps take a look and write a message, doing so could help yourself and others.
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Earlier this month, at court CCTV footage was released of a peadophile waiting outside the school gates of his 13 year old victim, moments before snatching her into the back of his car. He then drove her to a quite area where he knocked her unconscious and beat her. She woke up 3 hours later, half naked on the side of the road.
Thanks to the CCTV footage, the judge has warned him that he faces a “lengthy” sentence. His victim is said to be “distraught” and still can’t sleep.
Be vary of any strangers where ever you are and never trust anyone you don’t know.
Emily was a very pleasant and beautiful young girl, but at the age of 7 her father began abusing her; which lead to consistently being raped over many years. As her mother worked nights, no one was aware of Emily’s secret which she burdned through her childhood. Her father would often treat her, which made him appear to be a caring father to friends and her mother. Her father even once took her on holiday, under the impression she was his wife. After raping her every night, when they came home, Emily befriended a boy secretly from her father and after one day, Emily confronted her Father, first of all he laughed at her. But after Emily showed tremendous courage, he realised she was serious and that his reign of his daughter as a prisoner was over. He then began to cry and told her he loved her, but Emily stayed strong. That night Emily confessed to her friend, from there the nightmare was over.
After keeping such a abuse secret for nearly 10 years, Emily has now moved on with her life and lives with her new fiancé who are set to marry next year, despite of a recent miscarriage Emily’s life is very different now, and deffinatley for the better.
Emily has proved no matter how terrible life gets, as long as your brave, you can still recover and lead a beautiful life.
The man also used the social networking sites to meet young people he knew on his post round, on school runs as a taxi driver, and in his role as secretary of a football club.
Michael Williams, 28, would dye his hair different colors to mask his identity on the social networks.
The brave young people who came forward and reported Williams have been praised, as catching Williams wouldn’t have been possible without them.
Many of these women were too scared to speak out about their assaults, as they believed people wouldn’t believe them because of their problems. But because one of these women were brave enough to be the first and step forward and tell someone, 15 other woman then followed her and came forward, which has now gave Mitchell two life sentences.
Being brave enough and coming forward can not just help yourself, but help others who have went through the same as you.
Here is a video made by a man who was sexually abused as a child. He kept his abuse secret for 20 years! He made this video to create a snapshot of his life. “I wanted that happy childhood dream. But I finally knew that there was nothing I could do to take my childhood back, to wipe away the abuse. I couldn’t even pretend anymore that the abuse didn’t exist.” Here is his video..
Chris has now been contacted by other men abused as a child, saying how his video helped them deal through coming to terms with his own abuse and how some men have even created their own “My name is..” video. Chris also took part in a Oprah special, with 200 other abused men, dealing and telling their story of abuse. Here is a video of part of the Oprah show.
Earlier this week a while a 13 year old girl was walking home, a car stopped with a man in his late teens offering her a lift. After the girl accepted his invitation, he drove the girl to a small unknown car park, four miles away where he raped her.
Police describe the incident as very “horrific” for the girl and are appealing for any witnesses.
Please be cautious of all strangers. If ever in doubt; better to be safe than sorry.
A recent poll, surveyed in London, shocked Boris Johnson and Rape Charities last week, as the poll reported that nearly 25% of young men consider it not to be rape if a woman refuses consent! Also nearly half of the men surveyed admitted they would sleep with a woman too drunk or drugged to consent. Boris Johnson commented “This research is shocking.”
This poll researched 1,012, 18 to 25 men in the London area, by The Havens sexual assault clinics.
Sex is only not rape when the participant gives their consent, not just saying “no”.
The two 15 years old’s were being supervised by the single mum of two and one day exchanged phone numbers. Soon they started contacting each other frequently, by texts and phones calls. A week later she invited the boys to her house after school to watch DVDs. One of the boys told how she started kissing and touching him, she soon lead him upstairs where they had sex. Not long after he left, leaving his friend still there with the woman, alone. The other boy stated how they too had sex, and how he spent the night at her house.
The classroom assistant pleaded guilty to the two charges of sexual activity with a child and was sentenced to 16 months in jail.
Even if your abuser is in a trusted position like this woman, at YPSSiC we will be here for you and believe you.
Derek Slade, the former headteacher of St George’s private school in Ipswich was jailed on 6th September 2010 after admitting to being a pedophile.
He was found guilty of beating and sexually assaulting 12 boys between the ages of eight and 13, over a six-year period from 1978.
Boys were forced to write about “Whackings I have had” after having been beaten by Slade using a slipper, a table tennis bat and his hand.
Slade admitted that there was a sexual nature behind the corporal punishment that he inflicted.
One boy did not tell his parents, while another described the assaults “as a reign of terror”.